“Vanilla” hasn’t for ages been a put-down
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” are merely dismissed. The pejorative word being ‘vanilla, ’ which will be ironically, probably the most sensual aromas. ” – Andrea Dworkin.
“I wish BDSM people would stop talking about me personally as ‘vanilla. ‘ A derogatory name that implies they’re all prudish bores? ” – Anonymous, commenter on Bitch if you’re making the case that everyone should be free to do what they like without being judged, why call non-BDSM people.
If we bemoan the oversexualization of tradition, should we additionally be worried about the kinkification of culture? As BDSM writer Clarisse Thorn writes, “Being a sex-positive feminist, we stress that other females will read could work and it’ll increase their performance anxiety. ادامه مطلب …